Sunday, 21 December 2025

Abandoning, Transforming, Transcending - Khenpo Gyurme - 15/11/2025 (1/2)

[Teaching translated by Joseph Faria] This is the continuation of my notes on the teachings of the Tergar retreat.

Today we will discuss how we relate with thoughts and emotions.  When we talk about what exists out there, what we experience in mind, and how we like or dislike, the fundamental root of all of it is our mind.  Because the fundamental root of all joy and suffering is mind, we must tame, pacify, relax our mind, and then our experience will become also relaxed. Instead, if we have an untamed mind, all the emotions: anger, jealousy, will disturb us, and then nothing can satisfy us.

How many minds do you have: one, two…?  [people answer] Only one, OK.  And is your mind clever or stupid?  Is your mind peaceful or disturbed?  When we wake up our mind starts telling things: “What I should eat for breakfast?”, “What should I wear today?”, “Should I have a shower?”  Then, is the mind sharp or peaceful?  Maybe we have two minds? One mind inside that is clear, and one mind outside that is muddy.

We will talk today about training, taming, the mind. Which one we will train? The inner mind, that is clear like crystal and we call also Buddha nature, is peaceful, or the muddy mind that is shows anger, jealousy, depression, anxiety.  It the muddy mind also peaceful?  Can we transform the muddy mind into the crystal mind? [discussing with the public] Is the muddy mind also crystal mind?  Does it come from the crystal mind?

There is a Gampopa’s quota “The essence of thought is dharmakaya.”  It says that klesha is also wisdom, because it is empty, clear, and knowingness.

The first method to deal with emotions is abandoning or relinquish them, we don’t say that kleshas are wisdom, but in the Mahamudra teachings we refer to emotions as being also wisdom.  In the sutrayana approach we relinquish the kleshas and the wisdom manifests by itself.

Things are empty in their essence. But in this context, we don’t recognize or realize the emptiness of things.  In our distorted perspective, afflictions are afflictions.  So, we try to abandon or relinquish them.  For example, if we have attachment, we want different things.  And we want more, again and again.  That becomes a problem.

Although the essence of our mind is Buddha nature, it manifests as the muddy mind. Can we control our muddy mind? Do you follow your muddy mind or is the other way around? We only follow our muddy mind, we don’t listen our crystal mind. So, we train to not follow the muddy mind.  This is the method of relinquish.

When you experience something, you question your mind, you ask, “Why? Why do you want this?  Why don’t you like this person?” This is the training: questioning, criticizing your muddy mind.  We question all our emotions: “Why are you sad? You should love and accept them.” That may have a certain power to change the muddy mind.

Although there are a great number of afflictions, all can be summarized into three: attachment, aversion and ignorance.

The training is questioning.  For example, with attachment “Why I need to follow? Where this attachment comes from? Why I want this?” “Because it is so beautiful.” “Really?”  It can be anything: money, fame,...  And when you debate, you don’t impose, don’t force.  You don’t give answer, you just keep asking “Why?”

We do the same with anger, “Why you are angry at him?” “Is they stupid, ugly?” “Really, how is it?” You debate, and also you give love and compassion: “This person also wants to be happy, the same as you. Why are you angry at them?”  Then your angry mind becomes softer.

  • Antidote to attachment is meditation on revulsion
  • Antidote to aversion is meditation on love and compassion
  • Antidote to ignorance is meditation on interdependence

What is ignorance? Not understanding truth.  It’s a state of dullness, doubtful, or blank, where we cannot understand.  You keep debating until your muddy mind finally replies, “I don’t know”, and then you can give an answer from wisdom.

Where this ignorance come from? From not recognizing the true nature of mind, the true nature of things.  When we look at this ground, the nature of mind, there are two qualities: emptiness and the radiance/experience, called luminosity.  These two qualities are not something different, are inseparable, they are empty luminosity.  Though we don’t realize this inseparability, and we consider emptiness and luminosity as distinct.  This is the basis for the ignorance.  That leads to experience the duality: perceiving luminosity as the object being out there and emptiness as the subject being inside.

Therefore, some things appear as attractive, other unattractive, and other as neutral, that makes us generate the afflictions of attachment, aversion and ignorance.  And lead by these afflictions we act, say and think which generates karma.

The karma then, create mental habitual imprints that, when they awaken, makes us experience (bad karma) pain and suffering, but also (good karma) happiness and joy.  This is interdependence: the three kinds of accumulated karma lead us to experience suffering, happiness or neutral.

Not realizing the inseparability of emptiness and luminosity is the root cause of accumulating karma. Therefore, realizing the inseparability leads to the cessation of accumulating karma. The antidote of ignorance is training in the understanding of interdependence.

  • In the Theravada we meditate on interdependence thru impermanence, suffering, and lack of self
  • In the Mahayana we meditate on emptiness, seeing all phenomena as an illusion

To practice abandoning we cultivate a counter idea.  For example, “Is this flower real or not? It’s true or not? It’s permanent or impermanent? It’s independent or interdependent?”  We do that because we cannot hold both perceptions at the same time.  Your mind thinks it is permanent, but when you see its impermanence, you cannot hold the perception of permanence.  To counteract our attachment to solidity of things, we must cultivate the view of non-solidity.  As the Indian scholar Dharmakirti said, mind cannot hold opposite views on an object, like self and selfless, good and bad, permanent and impermanent.  Therefore, making one view stronger in our mind immediately reduces the other one.

Meditation on antidote of ignorance.

  • Sit with the body upright and at easy
  • Start seeing all the things as unreal, or illusion.
  • Although things appear as there, outside, and mind appear here or inside, start to look at them as there is no separation between the appearances and the subjective mind, and rest on it.
  •  Rest your mind with no particular object

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